I believe the main argument against using anti-seize is accidentally over tightening the plug. If a torque wrench is used, does the anti-seize fool the torque wrench, or is this a problem only when tightening without a torque wrench?
Also, I have heard that it is best to change the plugs with a warm engine, not hot or cold. Here is an excerpt from the workshop manual (303-07B Engine Ignition - 2.0L EcoBoost (184kW/250PS) - MI4, 2012 - 2013 Focus, Removal and Installation, Procedure revision date: 07/25/2012)...
3. NOTE: Do not remove the spark plugs when the engine is hot or cold soaked. Spark plug thread or cylinder head damage can occur. Make sure the engine is warm (hand touch after cooling down) prior to spark plug removal.
FYI, the workshop manual specifies the torque as 12 Nm, which is approximately 106.2 inch/lb or 8.9 ft/lb.
Due to aluminum expansion when hot, it seems the ideal thing is to remove the plugs when the engine is cool and to install the plugs when the engine is warm. Of course, this is not possible, so what do you recommend for plug removal/installation? Warm (as specified in the workshop manual) or cool?
Summary questions:
01. Does anti-seize on a plug fool a torque wrench?
02. Remove/install plugs with the engine warm or cool?